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　　1、要拥有良好的向上沟通的主观意识。有人说“要当好管理者，要先当好被管理者”作为下属要时刻保持主动与领导沟通的意识，领导工作往往比较较繁忙，而无法顾及得面面俱到，保持主动与领导沟通的意识十分重要，不要仅仅埋头于工作而忽视与上级的主动沟通，还要有效展示自我，让你的能力和努力得到上级的高度肯定，只有与领导保持有效的沟通，方能获得领导器重而得到更多的机会和空间。其次要持真诚的尊重领导的态度，领导能做到今天的位置，大多是其自己努力的结果，但领导不可能事事都能作出“圣君名主”之决断，领导时有失误，在某些方面可能还不如你，千万不要因此而有居高临下之感而滋生傲气，只能给工作徒增阻力，尊重领导是“臣道”之中的首要前提原则，要有效表达反对意见，懂得智慧说“不”！第三要换位思考，如果我是领导我该如何处理此事而寻求对上级领导处理方法的理解！

　　2、寻找对路的向上沟通方法与渠道。寻找合适的沟通方法与渠道十分重要。我们日常上报领导的日报、周报等在现实工作中常常被我们变成了“呼悠”应付领导差事的工具，如何有效利用日报等常规沟通工具向上达成有效沟通的效果是我们每一个被管理者要认真思考和对待的问题。被管理者要善于研究上级领导的个性与做事风格，根据领导的个性寻找到一种有效且简洁的沟通方式是沟通成功的关键！当沟通渠道被外因所阻隔要及时建立起新的沟通渠道，时刻让领导知道你在做什么？做到什么程度？遇到什么困难？需要什么帮助？一定要让你的领导知道，不要期盼你遇到问题的时候，领导都能未卜先知且能及时伸出援助之手，有效的沟通是达成成功的唯一途径！其次要掌握良好的沟通时机，善于抓住沟通契机，不一定非要在正式场合与上班时间，也不要仅仅限于工作方面上的沟通，偶尔沟通沟通其他的方面的事情也能有效增进你与领导的默契！

　　3、有效的沟通技巧。在给足领导面子的同时不要丢失了自我个性，千万不要失了智慧。领导手上掌握着你急需的大量资源，不要抱怨领导对你的不重视或是偏见，首先去反省自己！与领导的沟通是否出现了障碍？沟通的方式是否正确？与领导沟通不等同于虚溜拍马，沟通中首先要学会倾听，对领导的指导要加以领悟与揣摩，在表达自己意见时要让上级感到这是他自己的意见，巧妙借领导的口陈述自己的观点，赢得领导的认同与好感，让沟通成为工作有效的润滑剂而不是误会的开端。日常工作中有时侯由于沟通方式或时机等不当，造成与领导沟通出现危机，让领导产生误会与不信任时，要及时寻找合适的时机积极主动的给予解释清楚，从而化解领导的“心结”。

　　向上沟通不同于普通的与下级和同级的沟通，很多沟通的技巧和方法要因人因时因地而定，多总结多积累，方能达成有效的沟通效果，成为管理管理者的高人！

　　英文版：：

　　1,have to own goodly subjective consciousness of heading up the communication.Someone say"want to be good governor, want to be good quilt governor first" Be the inferiority wants time to keep actively with lead a communication of consciousness, lead a work usually more and more busy, but can't have regard for every party involved, keep is very important with the consciousness of[with] the leadership communication actively, want is be devoted to in a work but neglect only with the superior's active communication, also want to display ego effectively, let you of ability and work hard height of get the superior affirmation, only keep a valid communication with leadership, then can acquire leadership to regard highly but get more opportunity and the spaces.The attitude that the respect that wants to hold sincerity secondly lead, the leadership cans make to the position of today, mostly its oneself the result of the effort, but leadership impossible everything cans do"the saint gentleman lord", it make firm decision, leadership have error, in some aspects return probably rather you, never therefore occupy vantage point of feeling but stir up overbearing pride, can increase resistance for the work 徒 , the respect leadership is the initial premise principle in"the minister way", want to express the objection opinion effectively, know intelligence to say"not"!The third wants to change a thinking, if I is lead me how should handle this matter but look for to handle a method to the upper grade leadership of comprehension!

　　2,look for to heading up road the communication method and outlet.Look for the suitable communication method and outlet very important.We report the newspaper,weekly paper...etc. of the leadership everyday is usually become"shout leisurely" by us to cope with tool of lead the work in the reality the work, how make use of newspaper effectively etc. the normal regulations communication tool heading up result of reach the valid communication is we are each problem that is want by the governor to consider and treat hards.BE want by the governor to be good at the character that studies an upper grade leadership with work style, look for to a kind of valid and simple and direct communication method according to the character of the leadership is communicate a successful key!When the communication outlet drive outside because of separate and Be in time build up rising a new communication outlet, let the leadership know are you doing what every moment?Attain what extent?Meet what difficulty?Need what help?Must let you of the leadership know, don't expect the time that you meet a problem, lead can know without consulting oracle and can stretch out to help in time of hand, the valid communication is to reach successful unique path!Want to control good communication opportune moment secondly, be good at holding tight the communication chance, not necessarily want not at the formal situation with go to work time, also want only a communication of be limited by the work aspect, occasionally communicates the tacit understanding that the affair of other aspects cans also promote you effectively with the leadership!

　　3,valid communication technique.At give the foot leadership face of in the meantime do not throw to lose ego character, never lose intelligence.Lead the top of the hand controls a great deal of resources that you need urgently, don't complain a leadership to you not the value or prejudice, examine oneself an oneself first!With the communication of the leadership whether appear obstacle?Way of communicate whether exactitude?And leadership the communication equal to slip away to clap a horse falsely, communication in want to master to listen to first, want to take in to comprehend and surmise to the instruction of the leadership, want to let the superior feel this to be his own opinion while express oneself's opinion, the handiness lends of the leadership standpoint with own statement, winning the approbation and good will of the leadership, letting the communication become valid lubricant of work but ising not the starting point of the misconstruction.In the daily pursuit sometimes the 侯 isn't appropriate because of the communication method or opportune moment etc., resulting in to communicate with leadership to appear a crisis, letting the leadership creation misunderstand and distrusting, want to look for suitable opportune moment in time to give to explain to know actively and actively, dissolve"heart knot" of the leadership thus.

　　Heading up the communication differ from common of with descend class and together the communication of the class, a lot of techniques of communications and the method important cause the person settles because of hour because of ground, tallying up many backlogs more, then can reach valid communication result, become the tall person who manages governor!

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